Tuesday, July 31, 2007

Update

Lyon is on Oahu at Kapiolani, which is supposed to be one of the top premie hospitals in the nation. He's in the best possible care and everything here on out is in God's hands. The nurses say he is doing well and has lost some weight, which is normal, and is getting stronger every day. Dad has been with Lyon since he left Kauai and Marie and Ariki will be flying over as soon as they get the doctors ok. We had a scare the other day when Lyon was having some breathing problems and they had to do surgery on his lungs. The surgery was a success and he's breathing better now than he's ever been. He's also opened his eyes and is taking in the sights, and has begun making noises. He'll be flirting with the nurses in no time.

This is undoubtedly going to be a long, tough road ahead. They say Lyon will have to be in the hospital for the next 3+months. Marie will be moving over to Oahu to be with baby and Ariki will be flying back and forth as work permits. Please keep them in your prayers as well as little Lyon.

I'll be trying to update this site as often as I can. Hopefully one of these days the rest of my family will learn how to do the same. Again, thank you for all your prayers...I hope you understand how much we appreciate it.

Here's the latest pictures Grandpa took:




A fork in the road

The sense of urgency in my mom's voice clearly indicated that something wasn't right. Mom had just gotten off the phone with Ariki when she sped past me and told me to get my things and get in the car...Marie was in the ER and having contractions. We all piled in the car and made our way out to the hospital in Waimea where Marie had planned to deliver the baby....which was supposed to be in November when he was due. Thoughts, fears, worry and hope filled our minds as every grandma decided to be on the road that day and the seconds turned into hours. Through the rear-view mirror I watched tears stream down my mom's face and her lips cry out to God that everything would be ok. I couldn't help but allow my face to be painted with worry. My dad sat in diligent prayer in the passenger seat and made phone calls to recruit prayer.

We arrived at the hospital and were greeted with the news that Marie was being prepped for surgery and baby was ready to come out. They had to do an emergency c-section and it was time for this baby to enter the world. We were also told that it was a miracle that they made it to the hospital because by the time Marie made it to the ER, she was fully dilated and ready to give birth. It was because the baby was breached that he wasn't delivered at home...a place where he surely wouldn't have made it.
We circled up and held hands and prayed. What more can you do in a time like this? Who is the ONE name you can call upon for strength? Certainly my mother and father who always made everything ok as a child couldn't make things ok now. The doctors could only do so much ...but they didn't have the ultimate say.
The ER doors burst open and a new life was wheeled into the ICU. Weighing in at one pound and 12 ounces, he could have fit in his father's hand. Lyon Tehanana'ia Foster had arrived 3 months early. Tehanana'ia means "the cherished one in the family" and there's no doubt in any of our minds that this child is something special. Something more than a miracle.
We watched with blurred eyes as they put different tubes in every place they could, pumped air into his tiny body, and watched numbers rise and fall. Never have I seen anything so tiny, so fragile, so amazing. As quickly as the worry consumed us, it was gone. God was in this room...you could feel it.
Ariki was allowed to go in and be with his son. It was so beautiful to watch him next to his son. Ariki's pinkie was no bigger than Lyon's whole hand. As Ariki spoke to Lyon, he began to come to life. His arms and legs began to move as if to let his father know he heard him, and then latched on to Ariki's pinkie. That image will forever be ingrained in my memory. We watched for hours as they monitored Lyon and waited for the airplane to take him to Oahu.
Finally they brought Marie to her room. She looked more beautiful than ever. The smile on her face told me where her faith was. You could feel the love in the room as we gathered around and praised God that she and baby were ok. The next 72 hours were going to be the most critical but the worst of it was over.

I'm still not sure what caused her to go into labor, perhaps she'll write a post on it, but it's well understood that God has purpose in all that he does. We often don't understand how and why He operates the way he does, but that's why He calls us to have faith...and to give thanks for everything. I'm in awe of the love that poured out from all our friends and family....distant and near. Thank you to all who came by, who brought food, who called, who sent texts...your love was felt and appreciated. The journey has just begun.

Sunday, July 29, 2007

Day one...

Funny the roads that life takes you down sometimes...

And it's amazing how our God works and how faithful He is. We were all so shocked to hear that Marie was pregnant. Especially after we were told by numerous doctors it would be a long hard road with a possibility that it may not happen at all. Guess God showed them who's boss.
"You're going to be an Auntie" were the words she kept saying that colored my morning every shade of happy. My first thoughts were "what did Gabe get himself into now?" Surely she wasn't talking about herself.
"No, I'm pregnant. You're going to be an Auntie." The thought took a while to process. I was sure I didn't have any other sisters whose childbearing capabilities would grant me the coveted title of Auntie so this had to be Marie on the other line. The next few moments could only be described as unexplainable joy that consumed my body from my head to my toes. God is good...so so good. Then came the repetitive "WHAT?!?! SERIOUSLY?!?! WHAT?!?!?"...then the tears...then came the high screechy screams that my body could no longer contain. Marie was pregnant. God is faithful. Take that doctors. I think from that day on I called every few days wanting a play-by-play on this new journey. I'm sure Marie was praising Jesus for caller ID (it's ok, I forgive you for not picking up). I guess I can only say it was a fun road for me...seeing pictures of her expanding belly, hearing funny stories of her "pregnant-lady syndrome" , seeing her radiate in her beauty as she slowly transformed from girl to pregnant-lady to pending-mother, and hearing the excitement in Ariki's voice as he proudly assumed the title of pending-father. Marie was going to be a mother. Amazing.
God showed his power to Marie and Ariki...and to all of us. He is a God of miracles and can make anything and everything happen. Why should we ever doubt?

As they say: science only goes so far...then comes God.

Mahalo Nui...

Aloha everyone...
First and foremost, a big Mahalo to all of you for your prayers. We've definitely felt the presence of God during this difficult time. It was so wonderful to see the Aloha that poured out from everyone and please know that everything was greatly appreciated.

Hopefully we can keep everyone up-to-date with pictures and news about baby Lyon through this site. We appreciate all the phone calls and emails and do apologize if we can't get back to you in a timely manner.